more than often we hear men complaining about us women and labels us as complicated beings.

after some incident i've come to realised the difference between men n women that leads to these comments about us. and then it leads to yet another answer towards why women sometimes couldnt be bothered with men and vice versa.

boils down to the pt where all these.. it's kinda lame actually.

in the guy's social culture,
certain words are like a taboo.
one sometimes seldom speaks of the exact thoughts and feelings in their mind (altho some are of course, very expressive).
but for the non-expressive folks, words indicating jealousy in terms of friendship, their expectations, seems difficult at times to voice out.

one mere misunderstanding leads to another.
neither party steps out to clear the air or ask questions.
in the midst of these there are components of barriers resulting in a even more negative reaction. angst, attitude, ego, reluctance to face the fact of ownself's flaw to give understanding to the circumstances of the other, and sometimes, even in the face of truth, they may not accept things being explained to them. they simply switch off and becomes stubborn and focus on the fact that they are angry and they are now the one to be pacified not the other.

if boths thinks such a way, nothing positive is probably gonna result from here.

somehow ego more than often cause us to be blind to things and gets pigheaded o'er small and nonsensical stuff. harping on things that should've long been let go off and not be so insistent about it.

sometimes i wonder, why do some ppl simply not ask questions when they have doubts.
instead, more than often they keep aside their unhappiness, have thousand o'er questions popping up in their brains to ask, yet they dun ask. and while pondering on the 'why' and 'how comes', they come up with their own assumptions and conclusions to the matter. some may rationalize things to the benefit of the other party. some, it's the other way around. it becomes to the point where u rationalize things for yourself so much, you've made the story perfect to protray urself as being faultless. if years of friendship is the excuse to keep things to heart n to harp on (sometimes yes, u have to put ur foot down on some matters. but for mediocre issues?), then why would it not also be the reason for you to sort things out properly instead of behaving childishly and the petty tempers and narrow mindsets?

it's frustrating.

anyway, just a thought. if you have good issues to discuss can put in my comments.

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will be meeting wilson's friends later on.
am the flower vase for the day cos his friends wanna meet me since they haven't. lol